A Parent’s Guide to the Little League Child Protection ProgramIntroductionThe backbone of Little League Baseball is the adult volunteer. One million
strong, it is this corps of dedicated people who coach the teams, umpire
the games, work in the concession stands, serve on the local board of
directors, and serve at the District level. These people, who live in
every U.S. state and more than 100 other countries, make Little League
the world’s largest and most respected youth sports organization.
We know that the greatest treasure we have is children. As adults, we
must ensure that these young people are able to grow up happy, healthy
and, above all, safe. Whether they are our children, or the children of
others, each of us has a responsibility to protect them. What Can Parents Do?Most children have been warned about the dangers of talking to strangers. But for many children, sexual molestation is committed by someone they know. In fact, 80 to 85 percent of all sexual abuse cases in the U.S. are committed by an individual familiar to the victim, according to statistics compiled by Big Brothers & Big Sisters of America. The truth is, child sex offenders can come from every background, every occupation, every race, and every level of education. They may be married, and they may have children of their own. It is dangerous to believe that the only threat is the stranger in a long raincoat, lurking behind a tree. In fact, the promotion of this myth may contribute to the problem. Sometimes, a child who is molested by a known and “trusted” person will feel so guilty about not reacting the “right” way that he or she never reports the problem.Sadly, we have all seen too many reports in which teachers, police officers, clergy, youth sports volunteers, etc., trusted by all, have violated that trust and molested children in their care. Of course, this must never be tolerated in Little League or anywhere else. In many of these situations, the young victims are actually seduced, sometimes over a period of months or even years. The child’s family is lulled into believing the unusual attention being lavished is a bond of friendship between the adult and the child. In fact, the adult abuser often uses gifts, trips, attention and affection as part of a courtship process. Sometimes, the courtship process extends to the child’s parent(s), but the real target is the child. Often, but not always, the victim of this type of child sex offender is the child of a single parent. In these cases, the single parent sees the child’s adult friend as a surrogate parent – a Godsend. The very opposite is true. Two good rules of thumb for all local Little Leagues and parents
Warning Signs of a SeducerWhile it remains important to teach young children about the dangers
of accepting items from strangers, or talking to them, we should all beware
of the danger posed by the “seducer-type” child sex offender.
What to Watch For in Your ChildWe’ve seen the signs that could point to a child sex offender, but what about the signs a child might display when he or she has been sexually abused or exploited? Some of these symptoms may be present in a child who has been or is being sexually abused, when such symptoms are not otherwise explainable: sudden mood swings, excessive crying, withdrawal, nightmares, bed-wetting, rebellious behavior, fear of particular people or places, infantile behavior, aggressive behavior, and physical signs such as pain, itch, bleeding, fluid or rawness in private areas.Getting More InformationThese items are meant solely as a general guide, and should not be used as the only means for rooting out child sex offenders. Parents can access more information on child abuse through the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (a nonprofit organization founded by John Walsh, http://www.missingkids.com/) and the National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information (part of a service of the Children’s Bureau, within the Administration on Children, Youth and Families, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, http://www.calib.com/nccanch/).How to Report Suspected Child MaltreatmentThe National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information advises this: If you suspect a child is being maltreated, or if you are a child who is being maltreated, call the Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800- 422-4453; TDD [text telephone] 1-800-2-A-CHILD). This hotline is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. The Hotline can tell you where to file your report and can help you make the report. Or, for a list of states’ toll-free telephone numbers for reporting suspected child abuse, visit the “Resource Listings” section at this site: http://www.calib.com/nccanch/pubs/prevenres/organizations/tollfree.cfm, or call the Clearinghouse at 1-800-FYI-3366.Talk to Your Kids; Listen to Your KidsIt is important that you as a parent talk frankly to your children. If
a child reports sexual abuse, statistics show he or she is probably telling
the truth. Unfortunately, the sexually molested child often sees himself
or herself as the one “at fault” for allowing abuse to happen.
Your children MUST know that they can come to you with this information,
and that you will support them, love them, and believe them. If there
is an allegation of sexual abuse of a minor, the crime should be reported
immediately. These criminals who steal childhood MUST BE STOPPED. |
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